I've been thinking about what I wanted to write about today. I'll be honest, I'm a little pissed at my friend. We met for coffee and once again the whole conversation was about her. It always is. Her and her problems. Now don't get me wrong, I'm a good friend. I will be there there for you. I'm the one they call at 3 am. I love people. Never would I hurt someone on purpose. I think I'm compassionate, nonjudgmental, and I don't care what your religious,nationality,sexual or color is. I'm everyone's cheerleader. That being said I can't stand being around stupid people. And I'm not talking about low
IQ's either.
If everyone would realize they are where they are because of choice's they made and stop blaming others this world would be a better place. I know bad things happen to good people, believe me I know. Things we don't have any control over, after this year how could I not know that? But it's what you do after the bad thing happens that's important. You can't control other people or what they do, you can only control how you react to the situation. I'm so sick of people whining about shit, but not doing anything about it, just laying there feeling sorry for them self's. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! It's not like I'm talking out my ass. I've had bad shit happen to me, I've gone through crap I've been the abused wife, I've been the single mom with three kids ( 3 kids under four at 23 years old) more crap then you all want to hear or know. The point is I could have laid there and felt sorry for myself, how would that have helped me or my children? After the stuff with Gloria(sorry it's hard to say rape) it was so hard, so hard, and until I had you guys my fellow blogger's I didn't talk about it with anyone except our counselor. I could have laid there under the blankets and hid. Believe me there were times I wanted to, but I had a daughter who needed me and other kids. What I'm trying to say is do what ever it takes but get yourself up, brush yourself off and face the fucking world and dare them to hurt you again. Feeling sorry for yourself helps nothing. Fix the problem. Deal with it and then move on. Fake being strong until you are.
OK off my soap box now! I was so mad and tried of the weight of her problems. Life is hard sometimes, it really does suck at times. But there really is more good out there than bad, happiness is a choice you make, not something someone can give you. There are great people out there, I know I've met some of them here, blogging, who'd have thunk it?
Sorry for that ranting people, feel free to rant back! Happy New Years to those of you that live across the sea! I appreciate you all and blessings I send to all of you. Until next time.......
IQ's either.
If everyone would realize they are where they are because of choice's they made and stop blaming others this world would be a better place. I know bad things happen to good people, believe me I know. Things we don't have any control over, after this year how could I not know that? But it's what you do after the bad thing happens that's important. You can't control other people or what they do, you can only control how you react to the situation. I'm so sick of people whining about shit, but not doing anything about it, just laying there feeling sorry for them self's. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! It's not like I'm talking out my ass. I've had bad shit happen to me, I've gone through crap I've been the abused wife, I've been the single mom with three kids ( 3 kids under four at 23 years old) more crap then you all want to hear or know. The point is I could have laid there and felt sorry for myself, how would that have helped me or my children? After the stuff with Gloria(sorry it's hard to say rape) it was so hard, so hard, and until I had you guys my fellow blogger's I didn't talk about it with anyone except our counselor. I could have laid there under the blankets and hid. Believe me there were times I wanted to, but I had a daughter who needed me and other kids. What I'm trying to say is do what ever it takes but get yourself up, brush yourself off and face the fucking world and dare them to hurt you again. Feeling sorry for yourself helps nothing. Fix the problem. Deal with it and then move on. Fake being strong until you are.
OK off my soap box now! I was so mad and tried of the weight of her problems. Life is hard sometimes, it really does suck at times. But there really is more good out there than bad, happiness is a choice you make, not something someone can give you. There are great people out there, I know I've met some of them here, blogging, who'd have thunk it?
Sorry for that ranting people, feel free to rant back! Happy New Years to those of you that live across the sea! I appreciate you all and blessings I send to all of you. Until next time.......
